Thursday, April 30, 2015
It's ironic that on the next day, Saturday, May 9, Mom and I will be participating (mom walking/me running) the Race for the Cure in Peoria in support of my cousin Laurie who was diagnosed with breast cancer earlier this year and underwent a mastectomy. As I have mentioned before, we have too much cancer in my family.
Thanks to the awareness of breast cancer and the early detection practices, cousin Laurie has a good prognosis and a long life ahead of her. I wish I could say the same for the awareness of Ovarian Cancer. We still have a long way to go in order to get it to the level where women will pay close attention to their bodies and become familiar with the symptoms AND be proactive about those subtle symptoms. That is what awareness is all about.
And we also need to push for a better Ovarian Cancer early detection/screening method, like a pap smear is to detect cervical cancer. I know it can happen and we need to keep encouraging those who are doing the research to KEEP GOING until they can nail down a procedure that works. There are women out there right now who have Ovarian Cancer and don't know it and WON'T know it for months. We can't let them go that long.
WHAT CAN YOU DO? Sign the pledge - and share it with others http://ovariancancerday.org/pledge/
I like their sound bite - "We are one voice closer to overcoming this disease."
Awareness is still the best defense against ovarian cancer, so add your voice and build one voice for every woman to overcome ovarian cancer.
Tuesday, April 21, 2015
|Mom and Heather, September 2013|
Then my mom was diagnosed in 2009. So my history was changed.
My cousin Heather (relation on maternal side of the family; mom's brother Larry's daughter) was the first one of our/my generation to be diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She is only 42 years old.
And unfortunately, after a short break off of chemo, Heather is going back on again after her scan yesterday showed lesions on her liver, spleen and abdominal wall. And as of yesterday she was having to make some quick decisions about what course of treatment to take - Carboplatin, Avastin with either Taxol or Gemzar.
Mom's oncologist Dr. Porubcin suggested Gemzar but decided to put her on Doxil instead... and the Doxil has worked quite well for the last three years. The side effects have been minimal compared to Carbo/Taxol mix mom had when she was first diagnosed in 2009. She was very fortunate that her cancer did not make it to the tumor level. Small "fibers" of the cancer had attached itself onto the omentum and some lymph nodes in addition to mom's ovaries. The surgeon who performed the oophorectomy/hysterectomy said he had removed most of it and felt that she would have a good survival rate.
When Heather was diagnosed in 2013, she had a tumor the size of an orange on her ovary and was Stage III. With no family history of cancer how was Heather to even know what was going on in her body? It's the same ovarian cancer story you hear over and over again about the sneaky and subtle the symptoms of the disease.
I am coming to the conclusion that there is too much cancer in this family. So now we go from No-Family-History-of-Cancer to Family-History-of-Cancer and I try not to worry about how much that change in history is going to affect me or generations after me. I am somewhat relieved that I had a son and no daughters... but if and when my son has children, a daughter, some day... how will she be affected?
That is why we need an early detection method for ovarian cancer now. Cures and preventative measures are great, but if we had an early detection method, then ovarian cancer would be just as treatable as cervical cancer and breast cancer.
I don't know how to get there (early detection) except keep sharing my mom's story (and Heather's too) so that women will understand that cancer can happen to them too, regardless of family history. And keep advocating for an early detection method.
In the meantime - please keep my mom and Heather in your prayers.
Monday, April 13, 2015
|Joan Lunden at the River Center|
I knew Joan had been diagnosed with breast cancer (triple negative - a very aggressive form of breast cancer) last year but did not read any more about her treatment or prognosis. Honestly, Joan looked FANTASTIC.
Midway through her talk I noticed that Joan had some of the same patterns in her life that my mom has had in her life. Joan was a caregiver to her mother, who suffered from Alzheimer's. My mom went through the same thing with her mother, my grandmother, Dolores who also suffered from Alzheimer's. Joan's mother died in 2013, and a year later Joan was diagnosed with breast cancer. My grandmother Dolores passed in 2008, and almost exactly a year later my mom was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer in 2009.
And, just as my mom was surprised about her cancer diagnosis, Joan was surprised as well. Both had no family history of cancer. Joan said she has always been an advocate of healthy eating and being active - just like my mom. I have always considered my mom one of the healthiest, fit people I know - my mom was the Geneseo Jazzercise All-Star and has been going to the Jazzercise studio for years. I remember going to Jazzercise once or twice and I had a heck of a time keeping up. And that was 20 years ago.
I was surprised to hear Joan talk about feeling guilty over being diagnosed with breast cancer. She said she felt that somehow she must have done something wrong along the way. But Joan made a good point: don't let anything zap your attitude. She knew that she needed strength and energy to battle cancer, and she had to stay positive. My mom also knows that attitude is the key to battling cancer and I believe that my mom's positive attitude has enabled her overcome her cancer and keep it at bay.
Joan also talked about being your own patient advocate and being persistent in your health care. She made the analogy of being "shot out of a cannon" after she was diagnosed with cancer, and I couldn't agree more. After diagnosis, it is a whirlwind of information, opinions and treatment options. You have to first and foremost advocate for your own care and make the decision. No one else can make it for you.
The one thing that saved Joan's life: early detection. That is the one thing that we don't have for ovarian cancer - early detection and screenings. The standard of care for ovarian cancer has a long way to go. The best we can do is tell women to "pay attention to their bodies" and act on those "subtle symptoms." Education and awareness.
So until then, we have two stories of two women who want to be cancer survivors. Saying to yourself that you will "beat this no matter what" is the most important thing you can do for yourself, and having a positive mental attitude is the key.
Monday, April 6, 2015
|Barb and Harry, mid 1960's|
Harry and Barb were quite the hip couple back in the day. If my father were still alive today they would have been married over 50 years.
Mom had her scheduled blood work done last week and it showed that her CA125 level went up slightly. I'm not thinking this is a big deal because her CA125 level has gone up and down by a point or two over the last couple of years. Of course I get excited when it goes down... but when it goes up a little it's a non issue...she doesn't have any other symptoms and is feeling good. Her next visit with Dr. Porubcin isn't until the end of May.
So today mom had eye surgery (left cataract) early this morning and everything went well. She has known for awhile that she needed cataract surgery, so since she is on a chemo break, now is the time. The procedure itself doesn't take that long...but we were at Trinity Unity Point for about 3 1/2 hours total time with the waiting and prepping with eye drops, etc. In about 4-6 weeks she should be noticing improvement in her sight. Dr. Wagle (SP?) said that in a couple of years mom will probably need her right eye done.
We had a nice Easter yesterday - mom sang in the choir at TWO church services... and then we went to brunch with two out of three boys and then my in-laws (Tom's brother and family). It was a nice day to be with family.